Death of the husbands

Jean F. Larroux III, Senior Pastor at Southwood Pres made the following comment about Ephesians 5 admonition to husbands and wives

I paraphrase here

When the Bible says 'husbands love your wives as Christ loved the church, and wives submit' - the culture hears 'the death of the wife', but what Christ intended was the 'death of the husband'

Hmmm...sobering, and true, because Christ loved the church, and sacrificed for her even to the point of death.